"Where do I meet people?
"I am never attracted to anyone"
"Why is dating so hard?"
"What is next for my current relationship?"
Learn discernment tools with our program for relationship alignment
"I feel stuck in my personal growth."
"I keep attracting the wrong people"
Am I Actually Ready to marry?
Why do my dating attempts keep failing?
Is this person right for me?"
Learn discernment tools with our program for relationship alignment
Finding Adam Finding Eve (FAFE) is a comprehensive Christian relationship building service and faith-based dating community designed to help single Catholics and Christians prepare for, find, and discern meaningful relationships that lead to holy marriages. Unlike traditional dating apps, we combine personalized relationship guidance with spiritual formation through our Theology of Dating program, relationship readiness assessments, and one-on-one coaching to ensure you're not just finding a date, but preparing for a lifetime of Christ-centered love.
Theology of Dating
A formation series
About eight years of formation is required for a man to be a priest. A similar time of self-knowledge and preparation are needed to be a consecrated sister. Don't you want to be a person who is as intentional about preparing for marriage? Sign up now to get started.

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The Roadmap helps us get to know you and deliver the personalized solution you need.
Finding Adam Finding Eve isn’t just about dating—it’s about aligning your journey with God’s design for love, marriage, and family. Whether you’re struggling with self-doubt, searching for the right person, or discerning your next step, our plan provides the tools, community, and faith-based guidance to help you find and build a relationship that lasts. Start your journey today with Finding Adam Finding Eve!
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First, tell us about you and your dating or relationship struggles. (Get Started)
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Next, we show you our specific programs to assist you on your dating journey.
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Practice and execute what you learn using the pillars of Prepare, Find and Discern
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Feel confident in knowing Gods Will for you and Boost Your Chances of a Fulfilling, Lifelong Marriage
The Pillars
The Adam & Eve Dating Initiative
Our approach to right relationship is rooted in church teaching and biblical constructs. It is supported by 3 pillars which are expressed through the human and faith formation. These Pillars shape our formation, assessments, events and coaching sessions to helps you with specific guidance for
your dating life and beyond.
Learn More with the links below.
FAQ
What We Offer
Theology of Dating
Formation on God's Plan for Sex, Love & Marriage.
Ready for Love Assessment
An inventory to help you know exactly where you are strong and where you need to grow.
Assessment Deep Dive
After completing the RRA, go deeper with a personal plan to improve your dating experience.
Men/Women Only
Sometimes, you need just the girls or guys to flush out some real life dating scenarios.
Ask Me Anything
Fun and enlightneing LIVE discussion where you can bring your questions to us.
Exclusive Events
As a member, you will have access to invite only virtual and live in person events.
GIFT Pre Engagement Program
The GIFT Program offers the dating couple opportunity to prepare and discern enganement with a married couple.
Personalized MatchMaking
As we get to know you, we can help match you with someone you may be compatible with.
Dating 'Must See' Topics
Short yet mighty video clips for quick digestable information about your biggest dating struggles and their remedies.
Quizzes & Polls
Use theses online tools to get acquainted and learn inside the community.
Dating Challenges
Fun and empowering challenges given by founders to help you practice all you've learned.
1:1 Coaching
We are always here to assist you in unpacking your assessments and developing a personal plan or just navigate your relationship.

As we get to know you, we offer personalized suggestions and introductions.
FINDING Matching Service can help you FIND
Christ Centered, Forever, Fulfilling Love.
Dating Apps
Not Free
Online & Screen Focused
Lots of Swiping with Minimal Dates
Algorithms
No tools for Success
Focus on Romance
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FINDING Matching Service
FREE
Connect Face to Face
No swiping & Get Real Interactions
Personal Matching
Help for your ENTIRE journey
Focus on Friendship
Preparing for a lifelong partnership requires self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and a deep understanding of love's true essence.