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Assessments & Coaching

Know what love is.
Become able to choose it.

Finding Adam Finding Eve gives you the assessments, coaching, and tools to become the person God made you to be — ready for authentic, lasting love.

Your first assessment is free · about 2 minutes

Features

Love requires skill, formation, and courage

MATRIX

Comprehensive self-assessment revealing your attachment patterns, love languages, temperament, and relational readiness.

KNOW

Deep self-knowledge modules — understand who you are before you try to give yourself to someone else.

READY

Formation tracks that build the virtues, habits, and emotional intelligence love requires.

GIFT

Learn the language of authentic self-donation — free, total, faithful, and fruitful.

Virtual Relationship Coach

AI-powered coaching companion grounded in Catholic anthropology, Scripture, and the Catechism.

Not another dating app

Become, don’t just find

We don’t help you find someone. We help you become someone — the person capable of authentic, lasting, sacramental love.

Theology meets psychology

Formation grounded in Scripture, the Catechism, Theology of the Body, and years of real ministry — not pop-culture dating advice.

Formation, not information

Tools that build virtue, heal wounds, and develop skills — so what you learn actually changes how you love.

Two Editions

Formation for every stage

Standard

Assessments & Coaching

Young Adults, Ages 20–39

  • Full MATRIX assessment suite
  • KNOW, READY, GIFT formation tracks
  • Virtual Relationship Coach
  • Sunday Group Date community feature
  • Dating tools & discernment guides
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Before Forever Edition

Assessments & Coaching: BF

Teens, Ages 14–19

  • Self-discovery assessments
  • School-managed accounts
  • COPPA compliant & privacy-first
  • No dating features
  • No social features
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Pricing

Every assessment, free

All assessments and tools are free. Pay only if you'd like to message a human coach.

Coaching credits are $1 each and never expire.

For Couples

Already dating someone? Take it deeper.

Our assessments pair with the GIFT pre-engagement program — a free intro call and four facilitated sessions to discern if you're ready for forever.

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How the AI works — and what it isn't

The virtual coach is clearly labeled as AI and draws only from verified Catholic teaching. Its insights are for reflection and formation — they are not therapy, diagnosis, or clinical advice, and they don't replace a human coach, a priest, or professional care. When you want deeper guidance, a real FAFE coach is a step away.

For teens: the Before Forever edition collects no personal information — accounts are managed by your school or parish, and it's built to spark conversations with the trusted adults in your life.

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